As far as my match goes, there are no hard and fast rules. Categories tend not to capture what I am looking for. I like individuals, someone who knows who they are enough to feel comfortable giving and taking. At this point in my life when it comes to romantic relationships I am looking for compatibility over convenience, though still passion over utility.I am a woman looking to love a **** irony of romantic relationships is that we all want to connect with something deeper in the other, beyond the physical - and yet physical attraction is the key that opens the door. If you want a pretty girl or some GQ hottie - thats not me. People who tend to over-value looks tend to be materialistic and shallow, definately not my type. If you value a great mind, and passion for living and adventure, i work with the US Army.